My First

So this is my first blog .. I do like to write but I have never shared it with anyone and yes I am an absolute novice to this whole idea of writing and posting it online for my friends to read .Infact even writing about myself on these so called social networking websites drives me crazy , I wonder how people can define themselves with words , for at he end of it you’re actually trying to convince your reader to actually like you, but on second thoughts I wonder , if all of what we write is what we perceive ourselves to be hmm what truelly matters would be feedback. Quite an interesting thought to myself of perception .I remember learning its meaning when I think I was in primary school in art class .. our art teacher clearly stating its all about perception, that time it was with regards to how we look at an object and then put it on paper .I loved that subject and as u see it even intrigues me now , I am constantly trying to figure what it is that people cant see about ourselves or themselves and say its because of our perspective ..

 

Last week my cousin took me to watch a silly movie .. I call it silly because the core subject of the movie was how to forget your ex. Very ironic I must say given my situation, well the movie has stayed on my mind since then and I wonder. It was called forgetting Sarah Marshall ..as the title suggest the main guy not that good looking to me .. but cute in his own way is trying to forget his so called ex girl friend who was cheating on him and in love with worldly stuff and never realized what she really had with her .. his loyalty and love . Yea I know that men get too complacent and we women want them to be on the edge of a sword at every moment ,and when they’re not we just kinda loose it … yea yea.. Well getting back to the point of perception, here Sarah falls for an absolute looser but a guy really good in bed, atleast that’s what they try to show and poor lover boy is left to mend his heart. In all of this one thing leads to another and then he meets someone new .How I wonder things can be so simple of moving on. I asked this question and the reply I most commonly get is perspective hunny , its how u look at it... Very clearly the movie makes out one person to be the good guy and the other the bad guy..but if you look at it percpectively, both were equally right in their own ways to have moved on.